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Have you ever been around someone that made you less valuable, less important and most of all not as cool as you thought you were? As you travel through life there are people that you will meet that will make you doubt yourself. You can’t quite understand what it is about them but they make you very unsure of yourself. Chances are high that those people are very good with women.

Throughout my life I have met several people like that. They had very charming personalities but there was always something off about them. Something that I could never put my finger on until now. There was always an undertone of superiority to them. It was not obvious like a rich person showing off his Jaguar or a bragging type of personality. It was very subtle until I started noticing the signs.

These people would make you feel as if you were beneath them in some way. It wasn’t the words that they used or their body language that told you this. No, it was the presence that was their tell. Spend enough time with them and you will begin to hear their message loud and clear.

The subtle ‘better than you’ personalities were almost always good with women. They were able to get away with things that most men couldn’t. Women would follow their every word and every command as if these men knew the secrets to the universe.

What was it that they were doing that would get women to do whatever they wanted? How did they get women so attracted to them?

The answer to that is manipulation. These women were being manipulated into being attracted to these “men.”

The best way to manipulate someone is by throwing them off balance by getting them to doubt themselves. Once a person is off balance you can easily gain control and push them in any direction that you want.

Our self esteems are fragile in the beginning years of our lives . We are doubtful, insecure and unsure of ourselves as we enter our teen years. Some grow out of this phase but many don’t. These insecurities and lack of solid self esteem continues throughout their lives. These people are easily manipulated by the ‘better than you’ personality types.

When yourself esteem isn’t strong enough it doesn’t take much for you to feel off balance and become unsure of yourself. A ‘better than you’ personality will make you doubt your value or status. You will start to ask yourself “what is wrong with me?” around these people. When that happens your self esteem is questioned and you need to re-validate yourself.

In that moment you will do almost anything to gain this person’s validation because your self esteem depends on it. Now they have you right where they want you. You strive and you strive to regain their approval but never quite get it. You have a carrot on a stick that no matter how fast you run you can never catch.

Unfortunately many women today have low self esteems. They are bombarded with the illusion of beauty on every channel on television. Constantly searching to feel good about themselves through expensive jewelry, dieting programs and validation from others. They become perfect targets for the ‘better than you’ type of personality.

It’s quite simply and easy how he gets women to fall for him. All he has to do is take away the one thing they crave the most…validation. Once that is out of the picture women are putty in his hands, he is free to do whatever he pleases. The women strive to get his attention and validation by any means necessary. He can sleep with them at this point or dangle the carrot just a little further out of reach to make them really work for it.

The cycle of validation continues because he will always make the woman feel like there is something wrong with her. Her self esteem hangs in the balance as she strives to prove her worthiness to him. This will go on until the girl wises up or the guy gets bored.

There are four things necessary when getting people to work for your validation:

1. Aloofness
2. Subtle better than you attitude
3. Reward/punishment
4. Charming personality

The first three feed into one another. A non-reactive personality (aloof) never gives anyone clues as to whether or not you approve of them. NO ONE can get a solid read on you or your intentions will be found out very quickly.

Being aloof causes those around you to jump to conclusions about your opinion of them. They search their brains for the answer but as we all know the mind almost never gives a positive response. Your poker face and their negative minds makes people believe that you don’t like them.

Addictions are formed through reward/punishment. People don’t get addicted to gambling by winning all the time. They get hooked by winning every so often. The hope of hitting it big keeps them running back to the slots time and time again.

In order to get women addicted you must reward them every so often. This is done by giving them a small sign of your approval. If you never give them any sign of validation they will get too frustrated and give up entirely. The key is recognize when this is happening and give them a reward. A compliment will do or any indication that you actually like them.

Quickly after you are done giving the reward you must revert back to being aloof otherwise they might not work as hard to get your validation. You must always dangle the carrot just out of reach and make them believe they almost have it but never fully giving it to them. Once they know they have your validation they won’t need you any more.

The last part of this manipulation equation is a charming personality. You need to lure people into your fun little game. Without the bells and whistles no one will be drawn in. You need to be likable, otherwise your subtle ‘better than you’ attitude will come off as arrogance. Arrogance is not liked unless it is mixed with charm. Then it becomes powerfully addicting.

I tell you all of this in an attempt to not get you to use manipulation to get women to like you. In making you aware of what a ‘better than you’ type of “man” uses I hope you will realize what is truly going on here.

If you use manipulation on women you are taking from them, plain and simple. They spend days, weeks and even years in an emotionally unbalanced state all for your desires. You can get women this way but you need to ask yourself “is the juice really worth the squeeze? “

Alex Strandberg
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What are your thoughts as Mother’s Day is fast approaching? Are you wondering how best to show your feelings for your mother on Mother’s Day? What is the perfect gift that can convey your genuine love and care for your mother without giving hints of flattery or appeasement?

You might get overwhelmed by the variety of Mother’s Day gifts that are available in the market. If you are like many others, you would want to gift her with flowers, especially if she is someone who loves flowers. Because of the traditional associations made, the first flower that comes to mind might be carnations! The association between Mother’s Day and Carnations is very strongly embedded in our minds. There is even an early Christian legend according to which carnations are the flowers that sprung up when the tears of the mother of Christ fell on the ground as she saw the sufferings of her son.

Flowers are very popular on Mother’s Day and they are almost indispensable as gifts on the occasion. You could easily get carnations, hyacinths, tulips, and daffodils for her.

OK, if not carnations or any of the other three mentioned above, you could give other flowers like roses and orchids. Or a mix of carnations, orchids, and roses. Are you happy with these? Or do you, like me, feel that these flowers do not make such great gifts because they removed from their natural surroundings?

Without completely discarding traditional notions, consider this question with an open mind: ‘are carnations the best plant and flower related gift you could give your mother?’ In other words, can you give something that is fuller and more organic than mere flowers?

That is where my suggestion gets its relevance. Gift your mother with flowering plants. They are better than mere flowers because of many reasons. They are alive, inspiring, and ecologically more meaningful. Moreover, they give your mother a chance to make her garden richer and more beautiful.

That being the main focus, let us start off with some other Mother’s Day gifts!

Simple and homemade gifts for mom

A very simple and telling way of showing your mother that you care is by doing everything for her on Mother’s Day. Let her relax on her most comfortable chair and read her favorite book and watch television. You could cook her favorite seafood dish or prepare her favorite dessert.

Crafts are a popular gift item for Mother’s Day. You can make them using common things such as paper by following simple instructions. Or you could write a genuine and unaffected letter for her. If you are comfortable with the medium of poetry, you could write her a poem that would delight her.

Jewelry pieces such as bracelets, earrings, necklaces, and rings can make excellent Mother’s Day gifts. In the apparel category, there are some interesting modern trends. A popular Mother’s Day gift these days is a nice T-shirt set for both the mother and the child.

Now we will move to the natural gifts category, the one that includes plants and flowers.

Plants and flowers for mom

Flowering plants being more natural and alive, they should logically make great gifts. It is surprising why they haven’t become very popular as yet.

Flowering plants are novel gift items for Mother’s Day. These are likely to be more-than-welcome gift for a mother who has been getting carnations year after year. They can be given in various types of containers. You could consider gifting them in baskets, pots, and metallic containers.

Undoubtedly, these plants are going to matter a lot to mothers who love gardening. They have the extra charm of being living things as compared to flowers, which are, although attractive, placed out of context because they are plucked out of nature.

If your mother is a lover of gardening, one of the best things you could do to her is to gift her with a pot of flowering plants. The longer the time she spends with the plants,the better she would feel about your gift and the good emotions that inspired you to give her that gift.

You could buy planted flowers from a good online florist. If you just go to their site and search for their Mother’s Day catalog, you would come across some nice planted flowers. You might even gather enough audacity to go beyond the usual carnations and buy plants.

You could get some add-ons too, such as wine, chocolates, and soft toys. Based on your mother’s likes and dislikes, you can decide whether it is appropriate or not.

Jobin K. Mathew
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The first American president said that he would rather be on his farm than to be the emperor of the world. There is no way to understate the importance of home in our lives. Home is the only place we want to go back to no matter what happens in our lives. Whether we become the president of the U.S. or reach the pinnacle of Mt. Everest, we know that home is where the heart is. Heck, even one of the dogs in “1001 Dalmatians” said: “I want to go back home because it is only there that I know who I am”.

Needless to say, we only want the best for our house. We want it to be as livable and elegant as possible. There’s no debating the fact a beautiful house brings about charm and positive feelings to the people inside. It can be difficult, however, to determine the right combination of furniture sets, appliances and home fixtures in improving the look of the house. And there are times when, unless we make use of payday loans, we cannot afford to pay our desired home improvement needs.

Tiffany Magic

Want to experience magic in your home? Perhaps the best way to improve home in an instant is to purchase for Tiffany lamps. This type of table lamp is a combination of elegance, history and artistry. Tiffany lamps are not necessarily cheap; you may opt to apply for payday loans from online companies offering simple and convenient service. Some companies offer their loan service without the need for credit score. All you need to present is the certification that you work for at least three months in a legitimate company. Yes, that fast and simple. In matter of days or even hours, you are on your way to withdraw your payday loans in Ontario.

Tiffany lamps are not mere house fixtures or table lamps. They are actually masterpieces of the decorative artist extraordinaire in Louis Comfort Tiffany. During his time, he was one of the prime movers of Art Nouveau movement. Tiffany lamps are unique among all the decorative lamps available today due to its one-of-a-kind style and design. They are made of stained glass windows paving the way for their elegant and amazing beauty. Today, Tiffany lamps are sold as collector’s items because of their historical and artistic value. If you can secure approval of the payday loan, though, you will surely have one or two of Tiffany lamps inside the house. What’s even more amazing, Tiffany lamps can blend with the house theme.

Purchasing Tiffany Lamps

When buying for authentic Tiffany lamps, it can run high up to hundreds of thousands of dollars. Buying the original creations of Louis Tiffany requires authentication from his descendants who reserved the right to distribute Tiffany lamps. But definitely, with payday loans to help you realize your dream of authentic Tiffany lamps, you can have them in no time. And your home will never be the as bright and glowing as ever. Thanks to payday loans!

There is another and cheaper option in Tiffany lamps, though. Various glass makers have devised a way to replicate the original designs and materials used by Louis Tiffany. With the replica version of Tiffany lamps, it won’t be difficult to purchase Tiffany lamps for each room in the house.

If diamond is to jewelry, Tiffany lamp is to house lamps. Can you imagine why Tiffany lamps remain so popular today? It’s because this type of lamp has an everlasting effect with it. Whether original or replica version of Tiffany lamps, it should be noted that not all Tiffanys have the same designs. The original Tiffany lamps were each handcrafted, not mass-produced, by Louis Tiffany and aides using varying and intricate designs. Just make sure to process your payday loans as soon as possible so that you will experience a new look in your house without renovating it. After all, we want to experience magic in our home sometimes.

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What is a bridesmaid? A bridesmaid is typically a sister, relative or very close friend of the bride, and she is there to assist the bride with planning out the wedding. She is also there to lend a supportive and sympathetic ear, and perhaps a shoulder to cry on. In short, the bridesmaid is there for the bride during the busy and stressful time that is planning a wedding.

Because a bridesmaid does so much for the bride and her wedding, it’s only fair that a bride take the time to purchase a thoughtful gift for her. While the gift does not have to be very expensive, it should certainly be thoughtful and something that is of sentimental value.

What kind of gift might be appropriate for a bridesmaid? Well, jewelry certainly comes to mind. Jewelry is a very popular choice for bridesmaids gifts. Pearl necklaces, charm bracelets and diamond earrings all make wonderful choices for gifts for bridesmaids. Personalized items are also in high demand. Monogrammed towel sets, for the bridesmaid’s bathroom, or a beautiful satin robe with matching slippers, are two more examples of luxurious, thoughtful gifts that aren’t overly pricey.

Groomsmen should also be acknowledged for the time and energy they devote to helping the groom with his part in the wedding. A groomsman is often a brother or close relative of the groom, but may also be a close friend. He serves as an adviser to the groom before the wedding, and helps the groom remain organized and stay on task. Groomsmen may also pitch in during the wedding, helping with seating and reception organization.

Groomsmen should also be thought of and given gifts in exchange for their services during the wedding planning and the wedding itself. Groomsmen gifts might include such items as engraved watches or cuff links, a fancy tie complete with a tie pin, a personal grooming set, or even a set of golf clubs.

Regardless of what type of gift you purchase for a bridesmaid or a groomsman, it’s important to remember that it is the thought that counts. Bridesmaids gifts and groomsmen gifts are widely available, so there’s no reason not to take the time to search for an appropriate gift to give. Bridesmaids and groomsmen give a lot of themselves to help the bride and groom plan one of the most important days of their lives, so it’s important to recognize them and present them with a gift of significance in return.

Kimberly Green
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What is a bridesmaid? A bridesmaid is typically a sister, relative or very close friend of the bride, and she is there to assist the bride with planning out the wedding. She is also there to lend a supportive and sympathetic ear, and perhaps a shoulder to cry on. In short, the bridesmaid is there for the bride during the busy and stressful time that is planning a wedding.

Because a bridesmaid does so much for the bride and her wedding, it’s only fair that a bride take the time to purchase a thoughtful gift for her. While the gift does not have to be very expensive, it should certainly be thoughtful and something that is of sentimental value.

What kind of gift might be appropriate for a bridesmaid? Well, jewelry certainly comes to mind. Jewelry is a very popular choice for bridesmaids gifts. Pearl necklaces, charm bracelets and diamond earrings all make wonderful choices for gifts for bridesmaids. Personalized items are also in high demand. Monogrammed towel sets, for the bridesmaid’s bathroom, or a beautiful satin robe with matching slippers, are two more examples of luxurious, thoughtful gifts that aren’t overly pricey.

Groomsmen should also be acknowledged for the time and energy they devote to helping the groom with his part in the wedding. A groomsman is often a brother or close relative of the groom, but may also be a close friend. He serves as an adviser to the groom before the wedding, and helps the groom remain organized and stay on task. Groomsmen may also pitch in during the wedding, helping with seating and reception organization.

Groomsmen should also be thought of and given gifts in exchange for their services during the wedding planning and the wedding itself. Groomsmen gifts might include such items as engraved watches or cuff links, a fancy tie complete with a tie pin, a personal grooming set, or even a set of golf clubs.

Regardless of what type of gift you purchase for a bridesmaid or a groomsman, it’s important to remember that it is the thought that counts. Bridesmaids gifts and groomsmen gifts are widely available, so there’s no reason not to take the time to search for an appropriate gift to give. Bridesmaids and groomsmen give a lot of themselves to help the bride and groom plan one of the most important days of their lives, so it’s important to recognize them and present them with a gift of significance in return.

Kimberly Green
http://www.articlesbase.com/weddings-articles/how-to-choose-bridesmaids-and-groomsmen-gifts-718089.html

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